Comments on: THIS IS WHAT ITS LIKE BEING A HOT GIRL…

By: kurisu7885

kurisu7885 — Sun, 18 Jul 2010 00:20:00 +0000

Good story, and often sadly true. I used to pull crap like this and it hardly got me anywhere.

I started just letting more of my personality show, and honestly, if I can’t say anything meaningful, I don’t say it. In fact it takes effort for me to post like those, questionable males do. It,s also a good way to sort out the douchebags, only problem is, some males do hide behind a facade in order to “bump and dump”, which his sad.

By: kurisu7885

kurisu7885 — Sun, 18 Jul 2010 00:02:14 +0000

MTV and other pop media ran them over with a Mack truck, that’s what happened

By: Amit

Amit — Mon, 05 Apr 2010 12:01:36 +0000

You took great example to put forward your point. Again how close you keep your cards and keep the curiosity alive is another factor to attract. You need to evoke the ineterst to the level that person get used to you and find it difficult to go outside your company.

By: David Rachford

David Rachford — Fri, 19 Mar 2010 18:27:03 +0000

Great story! About a two years ago, I tried something similar on the dating site POF. I wanted to understand what dating sites were like from a woman’s perspective, because I wasn’t getting much response from my profile.

The results were stunning, and most of the replies I had were just like yours. I think I was getting something like 30-40 emails / day over a week. It was crazy!

I actually feel like I learned to empathize with women on dating sites, AND, more importantly, I learned how “not to” approach women on line.

By: tempo dulu

tempo dulu — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 08:52:38 +0000

Well, it’s probably best to be “in demand” than completely shunned. But people do stange things on-line and are not so aggresive in hitting on a girl off-line – i.e. face to face – in case they are rejected. Cheers.
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By: Diggy

Diggy — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 09:58:38 +0000

Heya Jennie!
I hope guys will read it and take it to heart I like your blog by the way! Looks yummy! Keep up the good work and soon you’ll have a very valuable resource!

By: Diggy

Diggy — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 09:57:46 +0000

Hey Lia!
Welcome to upgradereality and thanks for stopping by!

Haha, yeah guys will be guys. I’m actually busy writing an updated version of this post so it will appear on my blog soon. I think that unfortunately from a guys persepective, a girls beauty is a big factor for relationships, especially in the younger years (20′s-30′s). A girl with the best personality in the world but average looks will find it more dificult to attract guys than if she were good-looking. But then again if she were good-looking, maybe guys only want her for her looks and not her personality. It’s a complicated matter but fun to think about and discuss

By: Lia

Lia — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 23:27:42 +0000

It’s more like that is what it’s like to be a girl in general. I’m not hot at all and still I get a lot of those “ur cute” and “wanna fuck?” messages on various sites.

Still I wish I was as lovely as the girl in the photo you used, I think I could deal with more random messages if it meant I could be more attractive to the kinds of guys I am attracted to.

By: Jennie

Jennie — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 20:23:31 +0000

Interesting experiment... and so typical the results. Thanks for posting this! Maybe some guys will read it and take it to heart. .-= Jennie´s last blog ..Asian Kelp Noodle Explosion =-.