I am really in the mood to share some of the Do’s and Don’t when it comes to meeting and dating girls, because so many guys are making mistakes that cost them many beautiful girls, and there are small things that you can do that make a world of difference.

For the girls reading this post, just enjoy a guy’s perspective on this and feel free to let the readers know if you agree with my points or not.

Don’t think I’m trying to lecture you here. All I’m doing is sharing what i have learnt from my interactions with girls, and what I have heard and seen other guys do.

THE DONT’s of MEETING AND DATING GIRLS

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1-) Don’t look for a reaction from her. So many guys do or say things in the hope of getting a positive reaction from a girl. It is approval seeking and one of the bigger turn-offs.

2-) Don’t think of yourself as less worthy. No girl has more value than you, and even if she does, don’t see it in that light. A girl wants to be on your level or be raised to your level, nobody wants to drop their level to be with someone.

3-) Don’t lean in when talking to a girl. Remember this one when you go out to a club, look at all the interactions going on between men and women, and see how many guys are leaning in when they are talking to the women. It is a sign of weakness. Instead of leaning in, if you want to be close to her, pull her up against you so that your face is next to hers and you can whisper in her ear.

4-)Don’t ask for permission. It took me a while to grasp this. You are the man, take and lead her. She wants this, and if you do something she doesn’t like she will stop you or tell you. Trust me. (of course this doesn’t mean take her stuff or something along those lines, you’ll need permission for that)

5-)Don’t make a big deal out of something small, like kissing her in public, your fist kiss with her, how crazy you are about her. Keep it all on the low as if it’s normal, but every now and then explicitly let her know how much you like it or appreciate it. If you’re nervous about kissing her, she is going to be even more nervous.

THE DO’s of MEETING AND DATING GIRLS

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1-)Be comfortable with who you are. Accept yourself fully, your body, your clothes, your style. Be proud of who you are. That is confidence. Girls love that. If you feel akward about something, she will pick up on it and she will feel akward too. If there is something about yourself that you are not proud of, take action, take steps to systematically change that which you are not proud of.

2-) Have intent but no expectations. So many guys have a hope that a girl will like them, or hope they will date them, or hope that they might get a kiss. NO! let go of the expectations and have intent. This means knowing what you want…again, its certainty and confidence. Have the intent of getting to know her, or getting her to like you, or kissing her. She will pick up on that, it’s pretty attractive and irrisistable…right girls?

3-)Be fun! There is hardly anything more attractive than fun. Having her smile and laugh at your jokes. If she is smiling and laughing when she is around you, you can be assured she is comfortable and probably attracted to you.

4-)Take the lead. Girls like to be lead. Don’t wait for her to make the moves. Like I said earlier, if she doesn’t like something, she will let you know. Be the man and choose where you want to take her. Be the one to initiate the kiss. Give her the rules and she will play your game.

5-)Don’t make it easy all the time, every now and then give her a challenge, or make her work for your attention. If you give her your 100% attention all the time, it’s too easy and she will likely get bored. Be mysterious sometimes. It will keep her on her toes:)

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I was at a local mall yesterday afternoon, just chilling by myself to get something to eat and go watch a movie before I was going to go out with my friends. I did a bit of shopping, only bought some socks really because for some reason, all my socks get holes in them after about 2 months…I don’t think that’s normal, so if you know anyone who has a book on “How to wear socks so you don’t get holes in them” then let me know:)

I did a few approaches with girls working in shops which is always pretty easy because they get paid to be friendly to customers so the HAVE to talk to you. Easy to chat and game them, especially when you go into a lingerie store, because you can just have so much fun with them. “Hey…do you think pink is my color?” and hold up a bra or something.

I went into a huge department store and walked around and came to the cologne section. Browsing the colognes, I have a few favourites and rarely try something new, I saw a cologne that my friend had recommended, and says it pulls girls like crazy: Bvlgari. I sprayed some on and yeah, it smells awesome. On my way out of the store, there is a group of 3 really gorgeous girls. I just stop in front of them and say “hey guys, what do you think of this cologne” and make them smell my wrist. They respond with “Omg it smells amazing, what is it?” and had a whole long conversation with them just from there.

I’m walking through the passage and see another amazingly attractive girl, I’d give her a 9, and stop her.
Me: “Hey, real quick, how do you think this smells?”. *make her smell my wrist*
Her: “wow…really really good, what is it?”.
Me: ” A friend recommended it, Bvalgari, he says girls go crazy over it”
Her: *smiling* “Yeah I can imagine*
Me:”Hey…you’re not from here, I can tell by the heavy american accent”
Again all smiles and a friendly conversation just from there.

And I repeated it with a few different girls and again, the same results.
Some gurus recommended opnion opneres, which is where you go up to a girl or a group and be like “Hey guys, real quick, who lies more…guys or girls”. And then you follow up with some sort of story why you ask that and go into it. This is also an opinion opener, but I feel it’s much more normal, you discovered a great fragrace and you want to know if it drives girls crazy:)

I think the original cologne opener was by Neil Strauss, aka “Style”, author of the book The Game
He suggested that when going out, you take two different colognes, spray one on each wrist, and then go up to a girl and ask her which one smells better, maybe why. Aske her which one makes her feel really good, or maybe even turns her on etc.

It’s even really easy to elaborate on it, because once you ask her opnion on how it smells, you can ask her if just by wearing the fragrance you can get girls to come up to you and give you their numbers. Follow up with a story where you have been searching for the perfect cologne, like in the Axe ads. (Have you seen those?) In the Axe deodrant ads, all the guy does is spray axe on him and these really gorgeous girls flock to him and make out with him…”The Axe Effect”.

Tell her you want to be able to go up to girls and say “Hey baby, my name is X, and you are going to be my new girlfriend”. She will of course be like “whatever”. And then you hold out your wrist to her and she will be like “mmmm….you smell so good…sure I’ll be your girlfriend”. This kind of thing always makes girls laugh:)

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It’s Friday and the magical thing called weekend is upon us.
Haha..yeah I’m talking like it’s christmas, but actually it can be. Getting a few hotties gift-wrapped and delivered on your front door:)

Just decided to do something fun and come up with 10 pickup lines that you can try out over the weekend!Forget about the outcome…just go out to a random attractive girl and say this to her:

1.) If I told you I came here to pick you up, would you believe me? Would it work?

2.) Hey! You’re cute…almost as cute as me, and I think I’d like to get to know you better! I’m…(insert name)

3.)OMG…no way…it’s not possible…you’re the girl of my dreams…Come here,*grab her hand* I have to get to know you better *pull her aside and go sit at a table*.

4.) Hey! *pause* I bet you have a beautiful smile… (if she smiles:) See I was right, (if she doesn’t:) Guess I was wrong (or) we’ll have to work on that one (and be humorous and plow)

5.) Hey! I’m taking applications for a new girlfriend. If you can cook, clean and dance, give me your number so we can arrange an interview (if you can pull this off please email me a field report on how it went)

6.) Courtsey to Ross Jeffries: “OMG…*feel the air around her with your hands* I can sense people’s aura’s…you’re multiorgasmic aren’t you;)

7.) Hey YOU! You’re with me! Im going to (insert venue) *grab her hand and pull her with you*
(very direct, and you have to be congruent to pull that off, very cool if you can though!)

8.) (To a group of girls) Hey guys…can I get your opinion on something? (really up to you what you want to ask) If I were to ask your friend (look at the girl you want in the group) to go and dance with someone she finds attractive, would she have the courage to go and do it?

9.) (In funny russian accent) Hello! I’m a talent scout. I scout for talent. I think you may have talent. Come with me…we have business to discuss *pull her to wherever you want to go*

10.) Hey! Now most guys will try and use some shady pickup line, I’m just going to be direct with you: I’m looking for 2 girls who are wanting to experiment. Have you ever kissed another girl?
(Then build on it from there:) try and get her to help you pick up another girl and take both of them home!)

Good luck and remember…It’s all about having fun. Play around with it. Truth is, when it comes down to it, it’s irrelevant WHAT you say, its all about attitude and confidence:)

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During the night I ended up having a little conversation with him, and it turns out that he has made the decision to become better with girls. Thats a step in the right direction.
He told me how for the last three months he has been aproaching women and sets in clubs and other venues and just getting rejected and blown out. I could still tell he was lacking a lot of confidence an this was the main reason he was getting all the rejection. He was thinking about just giving up and accepting that he wasn’t good with girls. This is the worst thing you can do!

It took me 2 years to get to where I am in being able to go out, talk to any girl I want, go and dance on the dancefloor by myself if noone wants to join me and most nights I’ll be able to hook up with a girl or at least get some phone numbers. Haha, yeah, I’m not an expert and I still get blown out and rejected, but it doesn’t affect me really, I just smile and move on to the next one:)

So you’re probably wondering why it doesn’t affect me?

Well, I’ve come to realise that other people have no power over you unless you let them have your power.
A girl rejecting your initial approach or attempt to talk to her doesn’t mean anything, because girls get hit on so many times, especially when they go out, they have their defences up. A lot of times an initial “rejection” is merely a little test, to see if it will scare you off just like all the other guys that approach her. If it shows that her reaction affected you, you have lost. Just pretend that you didn’t hear what she said or ignore it and carry on talking to her about something you enjoy.

Two very important things that make a world of difference are your body language and eye contact.

Don’t lean in towards a girl, I see it so many times, guys approaching a girl, she’s standing upright and relaxed, and the guy is leaning in while talking to her, it’s just showing neediness!

Secondly, eye-contact is what seperates the men from the boys. If you’re looking at a girl you find attractive, and she happens to look at you, don’t look away, keep that contact for a few moments, until she looks away, and then go up to her and approach her. If she holds the eye-contact for more than a moment, maybe even gives a little smile or a wink, you know she’s interested without even having said a word to her.

What does a woman really want?

The answer is pretty simple really, how to become the answer takes a bit more work. All a woman wants is a real man. Someone who is charming, confident, takes initiative, knows what he wants, is unaffected by her emotional crises, and can treat her like a princess.

One of the best explanations of man/woman relationships and the qualities of being a man is from the book “The way of the superior man” by David Deida.

 He states that when choosing a girl you want to have a relationship with, make sure you choose a girl who has chosen you first!The reason for this being that YOU are then her first choice, and not just some guy who is interesting and won her over. It doesn’t mean settle for the first girl who likes you, it just means, keep in mind that when you settle down with someone, make sure she is a girl who has selected you first.

 You may have heard this before, but women are emotional creatures.
We as men are logical, and reason with each other, coming up with logical ways to solve problems and confrontations weighing out the odds. The mistake men make is that they try to reason with women. Women follow their heart, and whatever emotion they feel.  “Change her mood, not her mind”, and that is why when she is in a bad mood, all you have to do is be positive and change her mood into a good one and she will be as happy as a kid with an icecream

From my experience, most women still like to be led. Although times have changed and women are much more independant, the traditional role of man/ woman still applies where it is the man who takes charge and takes the lead. Again, this does not mean tell her what to do all the time, because if you do that she is not going to enjoy that. A man makes decisions, whether they are right or wrong, and if they are wrong he learns from them. If you want to do something with your girl, then go and do it, if she doesn’t like it, she will tell you!

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