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There have been so many examples of things happening that seem too much of a coincidence.
I’ll give some examples just now.

Since reading things like The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle, and an awesome book called Psycho-Cybernetics (which I’m still reading) and a few more similar minded books, they all talk about reality being what you want it to be.

In other words, you are whatever you think you are, and your reality shapes itself to your idea of reality.
I read about studies being done where the body reacts in exactly the same way to things that are real and things that are perceived to be real.
An example for this would be being out in the jungle, and seeing a big grizzlybear looking straight at you.
Your body will turn into flight mode, adrenalin goes into the bloodstream, other bodily processes not needed for running get stopped just to get you to safety.
But say the bear was really just a man in a costume, harmless, you would not know, and if you perceived this man in costume to be a bear and a threat, you would react in exactly the same way and you would to a real bear.

The same with success and failure, if you have the self-image of failure, no matter how many times you try, you will find a way to fail, because this is your reality.
If you truly see yourself successful, visualise achieving your goals or having achieved them, you will eventually succeed.

Ok, so some examples from while back up until recently.

I was driving to a friends place who stayed in a kinda bad area, and got a thought into my head saying that nothing has happened to me in this area before.
10 minutes later my car was hijacked at gunpoint.

One day at work, a thought came into my head saying I hadn’t been to hospital yet that year, 3 hours later I was in hospital getting stitches in my chin.

Saying and thinking things like I don’t like blonde girls, and the next three girls I’m with are blonde.

I was thinking about this girl I used to like, and I hadn’t seen or heard from her in a few weeks and thought I probably won’t again, and a week later she calls me up (of course because she needed something from me) but still…

Then, this girl I went out with 2 years ago sends me a message on some social networking site. That weekend I go out clubbing and who do I run into? Her! In 2 years never seen or heard from her, and then I randomly meet her in a club? And then the weird thing is she asked me if I ever come to her town which is like 2 hours away, so I say, nope, I don’t know anyone there, so the following week, I meet up with this girl from the other side of the country to do a photoshoot on the beach, we get along well so we agree to meetup for drinks, guess where she lives..yup, in this town 2 hours away where I never go because I don’t know anyone there.

I can give many more examples like these, but I’m trying to figure it out.

Either I’m super intuitive and I get to know certain things before they happen.

Or its because I focus on certain things and thus subconsiously all my actions take me towards where I’m thinking of, even if it’s negative (eg saying well X has not happened to me) and then it happens.

Or it is just all crazy coincidences and I’m making a bigger deal out of it than it really is.

The thing is if it is because I’m thinking about it, it does not work when you say for instance:
“I want to win a million $”
OR
“I haven’t had a supermodel as a girlfriend yet”

They have to be spontaneous,impulsive thoughts that enter your mind for them to have an effect, I don’t know why this is yet.

Anyhooo, Just part of me documenting my thoughts, I’d love some feedback on this and hear if anyone else also experiences similar things?