<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
		>
<channel>
	<title>Comments on: How to get more dates</title>
	<atom:link href="http://www.upgradereality.com/how-to-get-more-dates/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://www.upgradereality.com/how-to-get-more-dates</link>
	<description>Upgrade Reality</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 08:19:10 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
	<generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0</generator>
	<item>
		<title>By: Travis</title>
		<link>http://www.upgradereality.com/how-to-get-more-dates/comment-page-1#comment-319</link>
		<dc:creator>Travis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2009 01:40:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://upgradereality.com/?p=595#comment-319</guid>
		<description>I think everyone goes through that &quot;this is scary&quot; phase... but after a while, you realize that there IS a lot of fun to be had in it!

The thing is, most people have this impression that the other person is eyeballing them and analyzing their every move... yet in reality, the other person is usually just as nervous as you are!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think everyone goes through that &#8220;this is scary&#8221; phase&#8230; but after a while, you realize that there IS a lot of fun to be had in it!</p>
<p>The thing is, most people have this impression that the other person is eyeballing them and analyzing their every move&#8230; yet in reality, the other person is usually just as nervous as you are!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Diggy - UpgradeReality.com</title>
		<link>http://www.upgradereality.com/how-to-get-more-dates/comment-page-1#comment-287</link>
		<dc:creator>Diggy - UpgradeReality.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Aug 2009 23:42:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://upgradereality.com/?p=595#comment-287</guid>
		<description>Heya TheManRevolution (in absence of knowing your name :P )!

Thanks for stopping by and Welcome:)
You are spot on with the fear of rejection, although that fear is totally misplaced since it is all in the head. Once you learn that the fear is meaningless, the world becomes your playground:)

Keep well and until the next post :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heya TheManRevolution (in absence of knowing your name <img src='http://www.upgradereality.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' />  )!</p>
<p>Thanks for stopping by and Welcome:)<br />
You are spot on with the fear of rejection, although that fear is totally misplaced since it is all in the head. Once you learn that the fear is meaningless, the world becomes your playground:)</p>
<p>Keep well and until the next post <img src='http://www.upgradereality.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Diggy - UpgradeReality.com</title>
		<link>http://www.upgradereality.com/how-to-get-more-dates/comment-page-1#comment-286</link>
		<dc:creator>Diggy - UpgradeReality.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Aug 2009 23:39:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://upgradereality.com/?p=595#comment-286</guid>
		<description>Heya Karen;)
Hehe *blush* ...what are you talking about...Im innocent ;)

Confidence in a girl is just as attractive :)

Thanks for stopping by!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heya Karen;)<br />
Hehe *blush* &#8230;what are you talking about&#8230;Im innocent <img src='http://www.upgradereality.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Confidence in a girl is just as attractive <img src='http://www.upgradereality.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Thanks for stopping by!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Karen</title>
		<link>http://www.upgradereality.com/how-to-get-more-dates/comment-page-1#comment-285</link>
		<dc:creator>Karen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Aug 2009 22:43:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://upgradereality.com/?p=595#comment-285</guid>
		<description>Diggy! You pimp!!

From a girl&#039;s perspective, the most attractive quality a guy can have is confidence (and that&#039;s right up there with sense of humor, of course).  And, like you say, you are allowed to make dumb mistakes... confidence goes a long way. :)

Great post... !

Karen</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Diggy! You pimp!!</p>
<p>From a girl&#8217;s perspective, the most attractive quality a guy can have is confidence (and that&#8217;s right up there with sense of humor, of course).  And, like you say, you are allowed to make dumb mistakes&#8230; confidence goes a long way. <img src='http://www.upgradereality.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Great post&#8230; !</p>
<p>Karen</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: TheManRevolution</title>
		<link>http://www.upgradereality.com/how-to-get-more-dates/comment-page-1#comment-284</link>
		<dc:creator>TheManRevolution</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Aug 2009 17:08:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://upgradereality.com/?p=595#comment-284</guid>
		<description>Dating is awesome. Sometimes I miss going out every other night with a different girl than having a girlfriend, but eh. Each has it&#039;s benefits!

I used to have a lot of trouble approaching women. I think the fear of rejection makes a lot of people freeze and unwilling to take action at all. But I used to just try and make general conversation with girls wherever I went...shopping for clothes, the bookstore, etc. The more you get used to saying ANYTHING to them, asking them out becomes incredibly easy.

I like your blog, dude!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dating is awesome. Sometimes I miss going out every other night with a different girl than having a girlfriend, but eh. Each has it&#8217;s benefits!</p>
<p>I used to have a lot of trouble approaching women. I think the fear of rejection makes a lot of people freeze and unwilling to take action at all. But I used to just try and make general conversation with girls wherever I went&#8230;shopping for clothes, the bookstore, etc. The more you get used to saying ANYTHING to them, asking them out becomes incredibly easy.</p>
<p>I like your blog, dude!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Diggy - Upgradereality.com</title>
		<link>http://www.upgradereality.com/how-to-get-more-dates/comment-page-1#comment-277</link>
		<dc:creator>Diggy - Upgradereality.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2009 15:38:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://upgradereality.com/?p=595#comment-277</guid>
		<description>Hey Brian ;)
Haha, glad it makes you smile, charm works everytime ;)

Seeya soon! 
Keep well!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Brian <img src='http://www.upgradereality.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
Haha, glad it makes you smile, charm works everytime <img src='http://www.upgradereality.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Seeya soon!<br />
Keep well!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: papa</title>
		<link>http://www.upgradereality.com/how-to-get-more-dates/comment-page-1#comment-275</link>
		<dc:creator>papa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2009 14:50:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://upgradereality.com/?p=595#comment-275</guid>
		<description>I like C.  &quot;I have no idea what I&quot;m going to say to make you smile, but Iwanted to meet you.&quot;

I&#039;m a dude, and that made ME smile!  :)

great post, diggy!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like C.  &#8220;I have no idea what I&#8221;m going to say to make you smile, but Iwanted to meet you.&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;m a dude, and that made ME smile!  <img src='http://www.upgradereality.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>great post, diggy!!!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Diggy - UpgradeReality.com</title>
		<link>http://www.upgradereality.com/how-to-get-more-dates/comment-page-1#comment-273</link>
		<dc:creator>Diggy - UpgradeReality.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2009 17:11:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://upgradereality.com/?p=595#comment-273</guid>
		<description>Haha, you&#039;re going to be in it man;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Haha, you&#8217;re going to be in it man;)</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Oscar - freestyle mind</title>
		<link>http://www.upgradereality.com/how-to-get-more-dates/comment-page-1#comment-272</link>
		<dc:creator>Oscar - freestyle mind</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2009 16:50:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://upgradereality.com/?p=595#comment-272</guid>
		<description>Haha nice! Now you&#039;ll have to send me a copy :D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Haha nice! Now you&#8217;ll have to send me a copy <img src='http://www.upgradereality.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Diggy - Upgradereality.com</title>
		<link>http://www.upgradereality.com/how-to-get-more-dates/comment-page-1#comment-271</link>
		<dc:creator>Diggy - Upgradereality.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2009 16:32:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://upgradereality.com/?p=595#comment-271</guid>
		<description>Heya Oscar!
Gonna make a video on this in amsterdam, its gonna be sweet! :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heya Oscar!<br />
Gonna make a video on this in amsterdam, its gonna be sweet! <img src='http://www.upgradereality.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
</channel>
</rss>
