“You never get to see it coming, you just get to watch it go.” – Drake

Have you noticed how most of the time, nothing in life goes the way you plan it? You can get exactly what you want from life but it hardly ever comes in the exact way or at the exact time that you want it to and it often ends up sticking around for longer or shorter than you plan it to.

If you don’t know how to deal with this it can cause terrible frustration and fill your heart with sadness for much longer than it should. I decided to write this article for all of you who are experiencing hurt, heart-ache or loss your lives right now in order to help you get through the difficult times…


Drake is one of my favorite artists, especially because he’s often got some very powerful truths about life in his lyrics. Take the quote at the top of this article for example…

When you think about it, every good thing that’s ever happened to you has kind of snuck up of you and gradually made it’s way into your life and become a part of you. You’re never aware of when it arrives (like a new love, business success or awesome friends) but you’re always very aware of when it leaves you and you have to watch it go.

I personally still get very sad when things I’ve come to enjoy or love so much are over and leave my life. I’m not just talking about girls who I end up falling for, but also the change when times with friends come to an end or when there’s a big change to my life routine that I’ve come to love. A simple truth about life is that any place is only as good as the people you know there. When one or more of the people you know in a place leave from your life (whether it be through the end your relationship, them moving to another place or even through death) the place becomes a lot less special and you’re left with an empty space in your life.

I know many of you experience similar feelings when losing something or someone you’ve come to love. Many of you struggle dealing with the change and accepting the fact that what you got so used to loving is now no more. Based on my own experience and knowledge, here’s what you need to do to deal with hurt, heart-ache and loss in the best way possible…

Make Peace With “Constant Change”

From the relatively short life I’ve lived so far I’ve come to realize that great things will constantly come into and leave from your life. Some great things stick around very briefly (days or weeks) and others for a longer time (years or even a lifetime).

What you should do right now in order to really make the most of life and live it to the fullest is to accept the fact that great things will come into and leave from your life for as long as you live.

When you make peace with the fact of constant change it’s much easier to enjoy the emotional “highs” of good things being in your life and to not be as depressed by the emotional “lows” when the good things come to an end.

As with anything in life you can see a loss of something good from two perspectives:

• You can either be sad that it’s gone and that you won’t have it anymore…
  OR
• you can be thankful that you had it and for the time that you could do it.

I always like to choose the latter because gratitude allows you to fill yourself with positive thoughts and memories. It allows you to continue to enjoy the present and future life you have.

If you choose to focus on the fact that you lost something you came to enjoy and love so much, you’re filling yourself with negative emotions, destroying the beautiful memories and seriously reducing the quality of your present and future life you still have left to live.

Embrace The Hurt

When something you’ve come to love and enjoy very much is suddenly no longer a part of your life it’s like there’s a huge gap left inside you. If you don’t deal with the loss in a correct way it can cause you to become very sad and depressed for months or even years which affects others around you and makes you miss the rest of your life you have left to live.

Some losses are more difficult to deal with than others. I’d say that the death of a loved one is pretty much the worst loss you can experience but the ending of a relationship can also be very difficult to deal with. Everyone has different ways of dealing with change or loss, but I’d say that the best way to deal with any form of hurt is to:

Embrace the hurt, shed the tears, cherish the memories and move on with nothing but love in your heart.

I know it’s tempting to try to block out the hurt, to deny what has happened and to bottle it up but that’s the absolute worst thing that you can do. Bottling up hurt is going to reduce the quality of your present and future life and it’s going to reduce your opportunities to be happy in the future. That bottled-up hurt will find a way to grow bigger and eventually surface as some form of depression or emotional breakdown.

The best way to deal with any hurt, heart-ache or loss is to embrace that hurt. Embrace the pain. Let if flow through you without any resistance. Let it hurt as much as it can until it feels like you could just explode and disintegrate into millions of little piece of matter, and then let it hurt some more. Depending on the situation, this intense hurt can last for a few days or a few weeks but it will pass. Just like an incredible storm, after it’s done raging and destroying, the sun will shine again. After the intense hurt has passed, you’ve processed it in the best way possible and you can begin the healing process of moving on with your life without carrying that hurt with you.

Console yourself with the fact that the universe has bigger plans for you and that there are many great things that will still come into your life. You may not always understand the reason why your life follows the path it does and why certain things come into and leave from your life but there is always a reason. Sometimes it’s best to let go of wanting to know why, to stop swimming upstream and to just go with the flow and let the river of life take you wherever it’s going to take you.

“Sometimes something needs to fall apart in order for something better to come together.”

 

Send The Right Signals To The Universe

Do you ever feel like the same bad things keep happening to you? Like that you always end up in relationships with people that end up hurting you? Or that every time you experience some success or progress that something happens to sabotage it and you go back to square one?

There was a time in my life where I felt like that but after years of reading and experimenting, I’ve learned that your mindset and the way in which you think is largely responsible for the events that occur in your life. After experimenting with changing my thoughts and mindset over the last years, I’ve definitely been able to attract the kind of things that I want into my life, but not always in the way that I plan it or at the time I really want it.

For example:
For a long time I was just going from girl to girl without having anything too serious of a relationship although I really wanted to get a steady girlfriend (but I never believed I could get one).

At a point my desire to get a girlfriend became very strong… so strong in fact that I was just thinking about it every day. Within a few months I met a girl who became my girlfriend as I wanted it and I ended up seeing her for 9 months.

I really enjoyed the relationship I had with this girl and we had many great moments together, there’s no doubt about that. There were certain things lacking from the relationship that I really wanted to have in my life and these things eventually caused me to end the relationship.

I started thinking about the things lacking in my relationship at the time on a daily basis, things that I wanted to have from any romantic relationship I’d have in future. Within a few weeks of ending my 9 month relationship, I met a girl who gave me exactly what was lacking from my previous relationship. I had an amazing time with her for 2 months until circumstances caused us to part ways on good terms. That left me a little sad but maybe our paths will cross again in future. Who knows.

There was also a time when I focused on other goals besides girls (like growing my blog audience and reaching a certain target for online income) that I achieved within a few months of seriously thinking about it on a daily basis.

Right now I’m focusing on a goal for a sum of money that I want to earn by the end of October 2011 which I want to use to have a great holiday when I go to Europe in November.

I included this section about the way in which you think because it can make a world of difference to the amount of hurt your experience. If you learn to think in a way which will attract happiness into your life (instead of negativity) then there’s a good chance that you can avoid a lot of future hurt in your life.

You may still be skeptical about the Law of Attraction (or whatever you want to call it) but I have no doubt that you can attract whatever you want into your life by seriously focusing your thoughts on it. Needless to say (but I’ll say it anyway), you still need to combine that serious focus on what you want with taking action. When you do that, you’ll notice that the universe will start giving you more of what you want.

Do you think I would get a girlfriend just by focusing on it? No, I needed to go out to get into the situation that would lead to me getting a girlfriend.

Do you think I’m just going to make money by focusing on it? No, I need to take action and do something that will put me in the situation where I’m going to make money.

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Embrace the hurt, shed the tears, cherish the memories and move on with nothing but love in your heart.

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When you’re young and in school or in college, it’s incredibly easy to meet people of the opposite sex. You’re literally in an environment where hundreds of attractive are taking part in similar activities as you, and you have all the opportunity to talk to them. But what do you do when you’re not in college, or when you’re working a full-time job with no attractive people around you all day?

Here are a couple of great places to meet people of the opposite sex, regardless of how old you are or what your work-life is like:

Clubs / Bars

Although clubs and bars are frowned upon by many people as a good place to meet someone from the opposite sex who isn’t trashy or looking for a one-night stand, I can personally think of many occasions where it’s worked out really well for me.

Many of the girls I’ve dated I actually met in a club or a bar, and I’ve gone out with some very beautiful, intelligent, sporty and ambitious girls that you’d think would never hang out in a club or bar like that. My reasoning is that if I go to a club to have fun and dance, surely people similar to me will also do it.

Keep in mind that there are all sorts of clubs and bars. You can find clubs with young crowds, older crowds, punky crowds and posh model crowds. Choose one where your type of ideal person would hang out and chances are that you’ll find someone you’re interested in.

Tip: Clubs are usually high-energy environments, and the trick to really connecting with someone in a club is to approach them with the same energy level they have. If they’re having a blast and dancing like crazy, you’ll have a good chance if you approach them with that same energy. On the other hand, if you can see someone is just chilling near the side and not in a energetic state, you can approach with a more chilled vibe. You can even make a joke when the person asks you what you do for a living and tell them that you’re a professional gambler making a living with video poker or something like that. Keep it light and fun.

The Gym

If you enjoy keeping fit and looking after your health and body, you’ll surely appreciate that from the opposite sex. The gym is a perfect place to meet people who have that same attitude towards fitness.

Even if you don’t go to the gym, you can use all the hotties that you could meet as an incentive to sign up, and as a bonus you’ll improve your health too!

Also, people who are dedicated enough to go to gym to keep fit are usually ambitious people who have their life together.

Tip: Approaching someone in the gym can be pretty intimidating, because people often have earphones in and they’re sweaty from training so might feel a bit embarrassed about that. When you go to gym regularly you’ll likely start seeing the same people over and over, and once you’ve seen them a couple of times it makes approaching easier because you have a bit of a history. Just keep your approach chilled, introduce yourself and don’t make it seem like you’re hitting on someone.

Holiday Resorts

If you really want to meet people of the opposite sex, holiday resorts are an ideal place if you can afford it.

Think about it… on holiday everyone is relaxed, has no stress and is looking to have fun and enjoy life to the maximum. If you hit up your local travel agency there are often vacation packages to resorts for very good prices. I’ve personally traveled a decent amount, and one of my favorite experiences is a Club Med resort vacation. A couple of years ago I went to Club Med in Kemer, Turkey. I went for a week by myself and it was crazy fun. Not only did I have a week of sun, water sports, unlimited amounts of incredible food and entertainment, I met many girls from all parts of the world who were there on vacation too.

You can even hit up the resort casino and meet people while playing some friendly blackjack games.

When I went on my Club Med trip I paid 1000 Euros for the week, and that included all flights and transport, food, accommodation and activities. Maybe not super-cheap but definitely something that you can save up for in not too long a period of time.

Tip: People in holiday resorts are there to relax and have fun. Be social and friendly, introduce yourself to many people and have a good time. It’s very easy to suggest someone join you for an activity (e.g. “Hey, let’s go wakeboarding”) and from there you’ll have plenty time to connect and learn more about each other.

Public Transport

Depending on your country, public transport can be one of the best ways to meet people of the opposite sex. I say “depending on your country” because in South Africa that just doesn’t apply, but I know in most European countries, public transport is safe and many people use it on a daily basis.

I like public transport because you don’t really need an excuse to talk to someone. You’re both heading somewhere and there’s lots of time to chit-chat. There’s also not much pressure on the other person, because in trams or trains people often hop on and off for very small stops. One time I was waiting for a tram, started chatting to a girl while waiting and 2 minutes later she had to get on a different tram, so I suggested we grab a drink and asked her for her number (and I got her number and the drink date). That’s how easy it can be.

Tip:Approaching people on public transport is usually best done in a chilled way or with a bit of humor. One thing to keep in mind is that people on public transport are usually on a mission to go somewhere, and can be in a rush or not interested in talking to strangers. Don’t take this personally if you get ignored or blown-off.

Hobby Classes

Hobby classes are a great way to meet like-minded people from the opposite sex. Hobby classes are things like yoga, dance, martial arts, music, drama etc. They’re awesome because you can choose a class you enjoy and go at times when you’re free. You’ll be enjoying what you do while being around others who enjoy doing the same thing.

My personal favorites are hip-hop dancing and martial arts classes, although the girl-guy ratio in martial arts classes is very low.

Tip: You can get great interactions and relationships with people you meet in hobby classes. It’s important to remember that you’ll see the same people every time you go to the class, so take things slow. Introduce yourself to everyone at the start, and try to be friendly and talkative as much as possible. If you start getting along with someone you can take the next step and invite them for a drink or dinner outside of the class.

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We have all sorts of relationships with others from the day we are born; friends, family, colleagues, business and romantic relationships. This book focuses mainly on the romantic relationship with your sexual partner, but the principles in it can be applied to any relationship to help keep it happy and healthy.

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You’ll find yourself silently agreeing with every point as you’re reading and you’ll very likely ignore anyone talking to you while you’re reading this book because it’s so engaging.

I couldn’t help but notice so many things that I would do from time to time which are exactly the kind of things that cause incredible friction and problems in my relationship. And it just made so much sense to me why my girlfriend gets angry or hurt when I do this.

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Personally I think that Valentine’s day, Christmas, Easter, Mother’s Day and Father’s Day have become way too commercialized. It is stamped into your mind by social conditioning that you need to spend money on these days to show people that you care about them.

What happened to, ‘The best things in life are free’? Love is totally independent from material cost or possessions. I’m sure that you’d much rather spend the day taking a walk on the beach with the person you love than getting a $5000 watch from them while they’re too busy to see you. (I bet some of you will say you’d rather have the watch but in that case it’s not really love).

Valentines Day Ideas

This brings me back to my main point. It’s Valentine’s day, and what do you do for your girl?
I was thinking of some things that I could do, like:

Booking a night in a luxurious hotel room for $200+ or booking a night in a spa hotel for $600+. Heck, you could even take her out for a fancy dinner which will likely cost you around $80 or more.

I think that you should do something special for your girl on Valentine’s Day, but it doesn’t necessarily have to cost you a lot of money. Often the most memorable and meaningful gifts are ones that are handmade or gifts that offer experiences (like a picnic on the beach at sunset).

57 Valentines Day Ideas

I’ve written all of these ideas from the perspective of guy to girl, but ladies, of course you can use any one of these ideas to make your man’s Valentine’s Day special too.

1. Pack a Picnic

Whether you just go for a lunch in a park or do a romantic evening picnic on the beach at sunset, the idea is that you get to spend quality time together, chat, laugh an enjoy great food.






2. Cook Her Dinner

This is really special if you hardly ever cook. Get a tasty recipe with all her favorite food and cook it at home for her. Add candles and a couple of roses and you’re set! (If you can’t cook you might want to practice the recipe before the actual day).







3. Play Her A Song (Yourself)

Imagine being able to play your girl’s favorite song on piano or guitar. She’ll be crazy about you!
Even if you have no musical experience, if you have the instrument it’s not that hard to learn a single song. Just search on Youtube for a tutorial and you will find dozens of videos that teach you note for note how to play the song you are looking for. Depending on the song you can learn to play it with a couple of hours of practice.







4. DVD Night With Sweets

It’s kind of cliche really, but still fun. Hire a couple of DVD’s (romantic comedy/drama get bonus points), pack your fridge full of cake, chocolate and her favorite sweets and enjoy an evening of cuddling and fun.







5. Under The Stars

Do you live in a place where you can see the stars at night? Then find a place where you can safely and privately relax, pack a blanket and cooler box with champagne and spend some romantic time under the stars together.







6. Flowers and Candles

This is also very cliche but your girl will still love it. Beautiful flowers or the bed covered in rose petals. Lots of candles around the bedroom. Let her come home and lead her into the bedroom like that and it’ll be a perfect Valentine’s day for her.







7. Take Her Dancing

If you know how to dance then this is an especially nice thing to do for V-day. Whatever your style of music (salsa, jazz, ballroom), if you can find a nice restaurant or club where youc an dance slowly and romantically she’ll love it!







8. Give Her a Massage

Not just a short 5 minute massage but a to-die-for massage. Learn the proper technique, get massage oils and lotions and pamper her for at least an hour or even two.







9. Scavenger Hunt

Plan an adventure with clues and little rewards leading up to a big treasure. This can be done in your house but also outside in the city or forest. If you’re feeling creative this could be a lot of fun.







10. Rent a Hotel Room

Even if the hotel is right next door to where you live, the whole luxury thing makes the day and night seem like a perfect romantic getaway. I know it’s expensive and you should only do this if you can afford it and because you really want to do it. Don’t do this just because it’s Valentine’s day.

11. Make Her a Mixed Tape

Well, in today’s time it’ll be a mixed CD. Get all her favorite songs and some of the most romantic songs of all time and compile it on a CD that you’ll give to her and play on the day at your place.

12. Look deep into his/her eyes with love and say ‘I Love You’

You may never have said it before or may you be so used to saying ‘I love you’ that it has lost meaning. If you really love your partner then say ‘I love you’ this time like it counts.

13. Take her out for a long drive at night.

Whether it be on a scenic drive out into the country or right through the heart of the city, a long drive with just the two of you can be incredibly intimate.

14. Plan a dinner out with your loved one.

It can be at a fancy restaurant, a posh place with a view or even some hippie joint with great food. If you want to make it really special, go to the place where you had your first dinner date together.

15. Surprise her.

Give her the dress or shoes she left at the store because there was no money or it just seemed like too much at the time.

16. Give her a plant.

Pot a plant in her garden which will grow up and remind her of you everyday, she crosses the garden.

17. Send her romantic love quotes.

You can give her a book, you can write a page, you can record a video. Give her a selection of romantic love poems that you think apply to her and your relationship together.

18. Give her a CD with pictures.

Make a selection of all the best pictures you’ve taken in your time together. This will be an amazing memory and very thoughtful from your side. Ladies, if you want to surprise your man, make him a CD with lots of naughty pictures of yourself.

19. Arrange a pool party for her at night.

Find a private pool you can use or rent at night. Make sure there are lights under water, and place candles all around the pool.

20. Go Clubbing

There’s nothing wrong with some wild partying and clubbing on Valentines day. Just the two of you, go out and have fun. You can even pretend like it’s the first time you’re meeting each other and flirt and roleplay.

21. Sexy Times

If you want to appear wild, give her red, hot lingerie. She can put it on for you right away.

22. Fake Stay-Away

Surprise her by saying that you won’t be in the city but convince her to stay in that night. Show up at her door with dinner and a movie.

23. Breakfast in Bed

Serve a breakfast in her bed in the morning of Valentine’s Day. Add her favorite dishes to it.

24. Perfume

It might be cliche, but personally I can never get enough of my favorite perfume/cologne.Gift a perfume which she loves.

25. Baths & Spas

Women love to have romantic baths and spas. Make her both, especially with scented soaps, floating candles and message oils.







26. A Simple Card

Make a valentine’s Day card, full of the feelings you have for your valentine.

27. Home-Made Movie

If you’re any good with video editing you can make a very special and meaningful gift by combining and editing footage of her and of the two of you. This is really where you can get creative.







28. Take Her Shopping

All girls love shopping. Tell her you want to spoil her and let her choose whatever she wants. This may be very expensive so be sure that you can afford it (or tell her how much she can spend)

29. Photographs Are Forever

Print the best pic of both of you and give her a pretty photo frame with your photograph.







30. Write Her A Poem

Write a poem for her though you do not know how to write. She will love it.

31. Stick With The Theme

Arrange every moment of the day in the theme of love and hearts.

32. Burn Baby, Burn

Light a small bonfire at night and feel the warmth of each other around it.

33. Share a Laugh

Write some love words on craziest things like toilet paper, napkins which can be scented too. Make her laugh.

34. Jewelery

Buy her some romantic jewelery like a necklace or bracelet etc. You can engrave her name or a romantic message into the jewelery if you like.







35. Outsource A Musician

Take a group of musicians to her house who can sing romantic chorus for both of you.

36. Basket of Goodies

You can make a basket fill of little goodies and things your partner needs daily (like body sprays, lotions etc.).

37. Lipstick Love

On her mirror, write in lipstick, ‘I love you’. Be sure not to use her most expensive lipstick, she might not appreciate that.

38. Give Her A Day Off

Do her household job or chores for the day so that she can have the day off to do what she wants.

39. Get a Tattoo

Get a tattoo that’s symbolic of your love for her. I’d be careful getting her name tattooed, but if you’re absolutely 100% certain that she is the one for you, then go for it.

40. Be Adventurous

Go camping or for an adventure trip on this Valentine’s Day. How about bungee jumping or sky-diving?

41. Give her a manicure and a foot massage

If you know what you’re doing, make her feet pretty and give her the most relaxing foot-massage in the world.

42. Boardgame Love

Play scrabble, chess, act like teens, using ‘love’ words as many as you can.







43. Lead The Way

Leave a trail of rose petals from door of her room to the nearby part where you have arranged champagne and lit candles with romantic music.

44. Make a Donation

Donate to a charity or noble cause in her name. If she’s the kind of girl that will appreciate that then this can be a very meaningful Valentine’s Day gift.

45. Engrave Your Love

Carve your names in a heart on a tree. This way a symbol of your love for each other will be around for longer than your time on earth.

46. Romantic Cleaning

Secretly was her car and decorate it with hearts and flowers. Leave her a romantic note under the windscreen wiper.

47. Puzzle Love-Letter

Write her a love letter and cut the letter into jigsaw puzzle pieces that she needs to put together before she can read it.

48. A Formal Invitation

Make her an invitation letter, very attractive, decorated and romantic, inviting her to celebrate Valentine’s Day with you.

49. Romantic Reading

Hide some heart shaped bookmarks in her books and magazines.

50. Be An Artist

Draw a silly (or pretty) picture of both of you and write ‘Happy Valentine’s Day’ on it.

51. Publicize Your Love

Publish your love story in the personnel column of the local newspaper.Celebrate your Valentine on social networking sites like Facebook. Make profile of your partner special. Post some lovely message.

52. Visit a Church

Visit church for praying and remaining together, or even just for being thankful for life. If you’re someone who never goes to church then this may be really special.

53. Arrange Tickets For Her Favorite Rock Star Concert.

If you’re lucky enough to have a cool concert playing close to or even on Valentine’s day, take her there and enjoy the music together.

54. Give Her A Gift That Will Remind Her Every Month

Gift a monthly subscription of favorite website of magazines that he/she usually read.

55. Give Her Your Favorite Cologne

Give her your cologne, even if it’s half-used. This way when she misses you she can still smell your favorite scent and be reminded of you.

56. Be Anonymous

Send her gifts without a sender’s name on it. Flowers, chocolates. You can even have them delivered to her work address during the day.

57. It’s In The Stars

Give her a love horoscope that describes your wonderful future with together with her.

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I’ve spent the last 4 weeks hidden away behind my laptop and video camera, working on a top-secret product that is going to change the lives of many men forever…Haha, dramatic talk aside, I’ve spent the last 4 weeks working on a new product with my buddy Carl Harvey (A master NLP practitioner and an overall very cool dude).

The product is called Simple Attraction Secrets, and it’s a complete training course about eliminating fear, becoming confident and getting girls.

You may not know this, but my entire personal development journey began the day that I got so sick of not being able to get girls, that I decided to do everything in my power to change it. (In fact, I started this blog as a journal to document my growth and progress with my goal of getting better with girls, but that story is for another day).

I really sucked with girls. I was shy, nerdy, filled with doubts and limiting beliefs and was incredibly scared to even say Hi to a pretty girl (Seriously!). I know you wouldn’t think that now, but for the first 20 years of my life that’s how it went.

I was never popular, never got invited to parties and most of all…never got any girls.

After I finished school, I spent a fortune on pickup and attraction courses and over the course of 4 years I approached literally hundreds of girls in my quest of getting to a point where I could hookup with a girl almost every time I went out.

I make it sound easy, and just summed up 4 years of hard work, frustration and enjoyment into one tiny paragraph. As you can imagine there is an incredible story behind it all. Much more than meets the eye.

Initially I was blown away by the fact that you could actually learn to get better at attracting girls. I always thought it was something you either had or didn’t have. Like, you had to be born with it, and if you weren’t, then you were destined to suck at getting girls for the rest of your life.

Boy, was I wrong! (And happy that I was wrong, otherwise life wouldn’t have been as fun as it is.)

I bought countless courses from dozens of ‘gurus’, who claimed that their course would turn me into a master at attracting girls within X days (you know the usual hype). I studied their methods furiously, and I put into practice what they told me to do.









This is where this story gets fun to read!

The problem I had (but didn’t realize until many months later) was that all these courses were based on lines and techniques. That meant that I would go and learn a certain line or technique, go up to a random girl and repeat that line to her.

At first it didn’t work at all, and girls just laughed or walked away. Yep…that hurt my frail little ego a lot.

After a few months of doing this, I started getting better. I had said these lines and techniques so many times, that they were almost automatic and I didn’t even have to think about them anymore. I had become a bit of a robot with a thought process of:
1-Target Acquired – pretty girl
2-Approach
3-Say line 21
4-Hope for the best

And yes…I started getting results. Girls wanted me to keep the conversation going, I got a couple phone numbers, a few dates and even made out with a few girls on the same night I had met them. (This was HUGE for me, it wasn’t even remotely present in my reality that I could actually do this).

Many months later I started running into problems. Serious problems.

I got to the point where I had a fair amount of success with these lines and techniques, and that girls would become attracted enough to want to see me again and hang out or go on a date with me. (Woohoo!)

But after spending a few hours with a girl, I had used up every single line and technique that I knew, and I had nothing left to say. That meant…akward silences and me going back to my shy self. And again, that meant no attraction, or whatever attraction there was, died instantly.

So after small success and many months or practice, I was back to square 1 (Only hundreds of dollars poorer).

The only light at the end of the tunnel was the fact that I had become more confident about talking to girls I had never met (but still far from where I am today). I stopped studying attraction courses and I stopped reading theory about how to get girls. Over the next 2 years, I continued to go out twice a week and approach as many girls as I could.

I mostly went to bars and clubs and talked to every girl in the venue. Sometimes I even approached the same girl a couple of times, because I would forget that I had already approached her. The look on her face when I came to talk to her again (and sometimes even said the exact same line) was priceless. Haha!

The result of me doing all these approaches and talking to all these girls every week was that I became less and less interested in the outcome. I got rejected by dozens of girls every month, and the more this happened, the less I started to care about what she thought about me.

This gave me an enormous increase in my confidence, which in turn led me to be myself which eventually led me to being to where I am today.









I won’t say that I’m a master pickup artist, or that I can get every girl I talk to. In fact, I still get a lot of girls who aren’t interested or reject me when I talk to them. But…

Over the last few years I’ve hooked up with more girls than most men do in multiple lifetimes. This may sound conceited, but I know I’m a good/cool guy. I know there are many girls out there who I’m a great match for, and I know that I can get pretty girls.

I’m actually very modest about this thing and prefer not to mention it to other people, that’s why I’ve been hesitant to post my story about my success with getting girls so that the world can read it. I don’t boast about it or go around thinking, “I’m so good with girls” or “I’m the sh*t”.

Nope, I’m just me, having a good time and doing how I wanna do. But I am like 1000 times happier with life now that I know I can get a girl almost every time I go out. If I’m in the mood for it, then I will. If I’m not in the mood, then there is no pressure to get a girl.

I see so many guys in the situation where they are really bad with girls. They can’t get dates, they can’t even have conversations with a girl they like because they are too scared and they can’t get laid if their life depended on it. Does this sound like you? Maybe it does, maybe it doesn’t…

I know what that feels like because I’ve been there. And it sucks. My heart goes out to the guys that don’t know how to get girls. Every now and then I meet a guy who’s heart is crushed by a girl, or who has been chasing a certain girl for the last 3 years. It makes me cringe and it makes me want to tell them what they are doing wrong, and what they should be doing right.

And So ‘Simple Attraction Secrets’ was Born

My buddy Carl Harvey was in the exact same situation. For the majority of his life he really sucked with girls!

He too managed to get really good with girls to the point where he can hookup when he wants to. He has managed to get the girl of his dreams and he’s been together with her for the last few years already.

The only difference between Carl and I is the way that we got good with girls. While I bought dozens of courses about attraction and spent months in the field learning through trial and error, Carl spent thousands of dollars on NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) training.

Basically, these NLP techniques allowed him to rebuild his mind and undo all the years of social conditioning and bad programming. He learned to create confidence instantly, remove limiting beliefs and build confidence through many proven and researched techniques.

Together we have created what I would say is THE BEST COURSE about eliminating fear, becoming confident and getting girls ON THE ENTIRE INTERNET!

We’ve taken all our combined years of experience, thousands of approaches and all our successes and failures and combined it into a product that will teach you how to get better at attracting and getting girls. It’s a series of 10 videos, each on a different topic and up to 30 minutes in length per video.

The reason why I say that it is the best course out there is because I’ve bought ALL the big attraction courses, and it didn’t help me much at all. As I said, most of them are based on lines and techniques that you need to learn and copy, and in the end you are not being yourself.

We teach you how to get good with girls by being yourself, and we teach you how to build your confidence from the foundation upwards. If you have a weak foundation, you will never get good with girls, so that’s why you need to start from scratch and rebuild all your beliefs and skills with girls.

We have the unique advantage of achieving great success with two totally different methods, and when we combined our knowledge, we created a course that is absolutely fool-proof in teaching guys how to eliminate fear, become confident and get girls.

Anyways, I don’t mean for this to be a sales pitch or hard sell at all. We are not even officially launching the product until next year!

The point of this article was for me to share my journey with you, and to make you aware of the fact that even if you suck with girls right now, you can learn the skills of attracting and hooking up with girls. You are able to walk into a bar and take a girl home with you the same night, it’s just a matter of learning how. And Carl and I can teach you that.

I’ll tell you what… We’ve actually created a FREE 30 minute video sharing a couple of our most important techniques about getting girls.

Check it out at simpleattractionsecrets.com.

You have absolutely no obligation to buy, but if you really like what you see and you don’t want to wait until next year to start learning how to get better with girls, then you will have the option to buy (And NO, it will not even cost you as much as $47).

Oh, and I thought I’d mention that it doesn’t matter how old you are, where you come from, what you look like or how much money you have. You can learn to get girls regardless of your background or situation. I’d say that our course is aimed at guys from 18-35, but anyone is welcome to check it out.

Chat soon!
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